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    December 14

    my verse today

    要時刻緊靠基督,小心防備撒但的攻擊。
    September 17

    感動.........so touching

    星期六在一個聚會中與一對教會的夫婦(經理及經理太)交談,說到我病倒了,所以不能参加詩班..........
    Was talking to a couple from my own church on Sat night at an evangelical meeting, I told them I was sick and that's why I didn't join the choir that night................
     
     
    半小時前接到經理太的來電,話會來我家(他們的家與我家相近)......
    I got a phone call half and hour ago from Mrs manager, she said they will drop by......
     
    一開門就見到她拿着一紙袋,盛載了一個湯壼.........
    When I open the door, Mrs manager handed over a papaerbag with a container inside....
     
    原來是海底椰靈芝"庶姑"湯........it's one of those chinese herbal soup for cough......
     
    我真係感動到想喊 I am so touched that I was gonig to cry
     
    我只是閒話家常地說我咳了兩晚無得"訓"但他們把這件事放在心中
    I told them I couldn't sleep for 2 nights because of the cough..but they have put this on their heart and remember it!
     
     
    感謝神,讓我感受到愛....原以為在教會中,也有失望....但神藉著何氏夫婦對我的關心,令我感受到衪的愛.....thank you GOD.....for letting me know that He is love!
    July 25

    THANK YOU GOD!

     

    昨天在回家的路上,險些兒發生意外!

    不知怎樣,放エ上了Highway後便很疲倦.......我計過,起碼釣咗廿十次魚,有幾次險些碰到防撞的護牆emoticon

    感謝神,讓我可以平安回到家中!

    April 08

    it's been a long time..........(English)

    I have always been wanted to read this book again......but everytime I try to look for it, it's either sold out or not avaliable.... (I had a copy back in HK but not sure if it's in garbage now @_@)
     
    quote from the book
     
    "The best remedy for those who are afraid, lonely or unhappy is to go outside, somewhere they can be quite alone with the heavens, nature and God. Because only then does one feel that all is as it should be and that God wishes ro see people happy, amidst the simple beauty of nature"
     
     
    I believe who has read this book know who she is---- "Ann Frank" A girl, who wanted freedom for so much......looking back, aren't we all have the freedom that she's longed for?! But we always said to ourselves we are unhappy because we cannot get that ---game console, we don't have enough money to go for a holiday, to pay our bills, to live..........HEY! stop that, just sit back, have a look around you.
     
    You have a job,this is a blessing!
    (even if you don't have a job, someone is still there to support you)
    You have somewhere to live, this is blessing!
    (even if you have to live with some other people that you don't love, you still have a place to stay)
    You have a car to drive, this is a blessing!
    (even if you don't have a car to drive, you still have access to public transport)
    You have lunch to eat, this is a blessing!
     
    JUST CLOSE YOUR EYES AND THINK....SOMEONE THERE AT THE OTHER SIDE OF THE WORLD DOESN'T HAVE EVEN THE BASIC. SO DON'T COMPLAINT, JUST COUNT THE BLESSINGS EVERYDAY!
     
     
    March 12

    如果可以,我希望和先生再生活100年

    from ming pao March 12 2007
     
    上周三以身擋車護盲妻、被貨車撞至重傷昏迷的71歲老翁賴復振,前日撒手人寰。彌留一刻,雙目幾近失明的妻子趙雪芳握他的手,就如當日撞車後丈夫握她的手一樣,雙方以觸覺去感受對方心意。在旁的醫生見儀器顯示賴復振的心跳突然急促,知道他快不行了,賴妻很不捨,但仍在丈夫耳邊細說﹕「你跟天使去吧!放心,教友們會照顧我……」說罷,監察心跳的儀器拉出一條長長的直線。

    「如果可以,我希望和先生(賴復振)再生活100年。」剛喪夫的趙雪芳向本報記者細訴丈夫生前種種時,平靜地說出這個無法實現的願望。

    10多年來 拖她走

    賴氏夫婦結婚接近20年,在這7000多個共處的日子裏,外人或會以為要照顧視力嚴重衰退的伴侶很辛苦,但賴先生從沒半句怨言。趙雪芳憶起,當年出席朋友聚會時認識丈夫,之後雙方約會了幾次,不久便結成夫婦,過程沒有半點轟烈。結婚初期,她一隻眼還有少許視力,日常起居不用伴侶太操心,還能做一些家務,但隨視網膜衰退急劇惡化,近10多年來,所有家務都要由丈夫去做,她不能獨自上街,外出時必須由丈夫拖引領。

    數年前,原任職餐廳侍應的賴先生退休,此後幾乎每時每刻都伴在妻子身旁,悉心照顧她。趙雪芳說,每早丈夫會帶她上街吃早餐、一起買菜,閒時會跟教友在內公園唱歌消遣,其他時間兩夫婦就留在家中,丈夫看報紙,她就在旁「聽電視」。傍晚,丈夫會下廚為她及99歲岳母準備晚飯,再侍候她們進食。由於遠行不方便,夫婦二人都沒有去過什麼地方旅遊玩樂。靠傷殘津貼及生果金等每月共2900多元,三人生活捉襟見肘,但知足的他們從沒覺苦,生活平淡但幸福。

    怕妻吃力 共識無孩

    56歲的趙雪芳說,丈夫婚後認為她眼疾太嚴重,要照顧孩子會很吃力,兩人早有共識不生育。「生了小孩,要給他們吃,只要省用一點沒問題,但最大責任是教育,一定要他們對社會有貢獻才好。」賴太說這話時,不無遺憾。

    風趣丈夫 愛送公仔

    在將軍澳翠林的家,細小的客廳內放了很多毛公仔,可愛不可愛,賴太無法看見,但她卻摸得到、抱得。這些毛公仔部分是賴復振買給妻子的玩意,丈夫當日如何拿毛公仔哄她高興的幕幕往事,趙雪芳銘記於心,「他為人很風趣,又有正義感……」

    趙雪芳形容,丈夫遇事重傷昏迷後自己腦中一片空白,什麼事都無法定下來細想,直至前天丈夫去世,傷痛感覺才漸漸浮現。過去,趙雪芳靠丈夫當「盲公竹」,外出時丈夫總是拖她的手,如今失去了丈夫的她,此刻只能重新適應沒有人拖手引領的日子。

    如果換了是你,你會不會這樣做呢?為了妻子/丈夫,相信很多了人也可以這樣做,但如果是為了沒有關係的人呢?

    "他被掛在木頭上,親身擔當了我們的罪,使我們既然在罪上死,就得以在義上活。因他受的鞭傷,你們便得了醫治。"   彼得前書224